You should thank your Ex for the breakup!
The stages of every love story and consequential breakup
Today I’m gonna tell many secrets about Breakups!
In very short version, a love story will have 3 stages
1. The boy tries hard to impress the girl to make her accept his love.
2. The boy takes the girl for granted and ignores her while in his fun zone.
3. Situations get exchanged and when the boy needs the girl, she ruthlessly avoids him. No replies to messages, no answer to calls, and finally break up.
This stage is faced by many but there are certain hidden facts broke up boys should know.
1. Never ever try to know the reason for the breakup!!! With that excuse, you will beg the girl to talk to you but she is never gonna tell you.
2. By virtue of your luck, if they tell you the reason, they will tell they cannot cheat their parents or let them down. They will go gaga about their papa and they won’t let you argue over it.
3. You might be middle-class, a lower caste, less handsome, a boring person, aggressive and over controlling, or emotional drama maker. She will not tell you above reasons for she doesn’t want to look bad in the eyes of you or the society.
4. The more you stalk her, the more she feels worthy, and you become cheap.
5. The more physical union is involved in your relationship, the harder it becomes for you to forget her. She might marry or get another boyfriend easily. Because they move on faster even without any other option. They can focus on whatever they want to.
6. You will feel guilty for hurting her, but she should have given the punishment right away, not after all the things turned in her favour.
7. If you think you will teach her a lesson by becoming highly successful, you will become a fool because they won’t care you. Their world will be different and you will not be in it.
8. Last, in order to come out of break up– explore the solution yourself! No consoling bits of advice will work.
You unknowingly worry more; not for the actual breakup but for not breaking up properly.
Whatever it is, you will never know the reason for the breakup of the girl. I think you may know it when we all know how Universe has formed.
You must thank the girl for giving you the greatest opportunity in life to become tougher, stronger, practical, wise and come back with bolts of fire in your blood!!
January 28, 2019 @ 10:53 am
Y is the blog crushing the character of a girl completely, do you mean guys are good-hearted and girls are cheap.
this is frustrating …Girls are the one whos struggles more physically and mentally after the break-up. Expecting facts from your blogs, not filmy imagination.
January 30, 2019 @ 10:41 pm
Hi Felisha. Thanks for commenting.
The blog is not crushing the character of girl. It’s just from a boy’s perspective which also applies to that of a girl. Taking sides as ‘girls’ as one whole group or even ‘boys’ as a group is not correct. Everybody is a different individual. All the points mentioned in the post apply to any individual irrespective of gender. I just couldn’t mention ‘him/her’ every time. Hope you understand now.
Thank you.