Unhappy people manipulate others’ emotions maliciously to get what they want

World’s happiness index report for 2019 is released recently in which Finland tops the list followed by Denmark and Norway with the United States in 19th position and India at 140th position. Various factors are taken into consideration like income growth of individuals, recreational levels, forest cover, and hope over future etc. But one intriguing I understood after reading the report comprehensively is ‘Unhappy countries have too much emotional pollution’.

You have heard of air and water pollution, noise pollution, and even light pollution but what does it mean by emotional pollution? By definition, if any impurity gets mixed in the original substance, it’s declared as pollution. People in unhappy countries, with all other kinds of pollution in plenty, trying to find happiness in the limited opportunities available to them resort to polluting emotions. It manifests in their lifestyle, intentions, and behaviours as follows.

They can’t get or ask things directly. So they use the word ‘Friendship’ for getting what they want from others.

In most underdeveloped countries, people compete for survival, livelihood, education, and experiences like love, sex, and recreation etc. It’s practically very hard  (or they might be thinking like that) to get any of those things in straight and honest ways. Due to that, they succumb to lies, manipulation by being most unscrupulous. If some guy wants to experience the advantages his rich classmate has, he tries becoming close to him with utmost meekness, experiences what his money can buy and stays with him until he/she has it.

Men use women’s vulnerability and women use men’s weakness

The love/sex equation between men and women is a perfect give, take and take in disguise. A man behaves zestfully with a woman he desires, gives all his attention in the beginning, fosters her like father and ditches her when his lust/desire is satisfied or when he exploited what all she could give him. It’s a bitter fact but no one wants to accept it because of the disillusionment it gives to sensitive people. Women select either rich guys who can show them places and life or they select innocent and well-behaved people who don’t have any understanding of reality.  They use a man’s weakness (hunger for sex or longing for an emotional bond with a woman) and exhaust all the man’s resources before they leave him.

Unprincipled people think they are clever until hit by a spine-breaking roadblock

People who manipulate others’ emotions to unscrupulously get what they want think they are clever and get away with anything. But in the long run, all the effects of their actions will accumulate and start hitting back one by one. It’s not a religious concept or Karma theory but practically time won’t be the same forever. So what all a person did when he is powerful or has support will hit back when he/she is weak. By their character, they will be surrounded by people exactly like them. They will stay in life until they get some advantage or return benefit but solving a problem for another person will be out of their syllabus. So when he/she uses people, the same thing happens in three folds for them.

The emotional and innocent people should wake up and see the reality clearly.

There is a movie dialogue which perfectly fits this context. ‘Be a good person but don’t be too good’. Too good people always ended up tragedies in history. When your friend or a seemingly nice person from the opposite gender is asking your help, you have to look at the situation from a distance whether it will be worthy or whether it will make you regret later. Only when you can see things clearly, your principles on life will be fruitful otherwise they will become the reasons for your heap of miseries.

People from happy countries don’t act in personal lives

To conclude, am saying it to the people of underdeveloped countries, practise the habit of being honest. Otherwise what all you get through maliciousness will again give you back its effects. Learn from people from happiest countries. They are happy because they have learnt to keep out things in open. They too act but for professional reasons not much in personal life.

Finally, Unhappy people cry over happy people as fake unable to digets the fact that they are happy and being honest at the same time.